A SIGN

There was a younger lady I also met under similar terms and her matter was that she (though very young) was giving up on the belief that Love even exist. She also had a kid very young also and wondered if she’s ever gonna find a good MAN one day. She also wondered why guys are always looking for somebody better that who they are with. [If an incomplete guy is with an incomplete girl then the best the two of them can be is incomplete] – Is what I told her. I believe this guy wanted to see her once or twice a week, see other people also but I don’t think he wanted her to see anyone else or maybe they both could. Maybe when she see’s this blog she’ll correct me. I checked my email it he doesn’t want her seeing anyone else but she wants security and to know where they stand in this “relationship” It’s okay for a female to lay down some ground work instead of asking a confused guy to define the relationship. It’s also okay for a female to have her voice be heard and if the guy can’t respect her then why continue. This was yet another sign that there's still a lot of work to be done especially when she told me that she believed I would be honest with her if she opened up some. We were strangers but because she opened up a little, I was honest with her. I'll never know if I helped any but I tried. As a tribute to all the younger ladies I wrote FOCUS
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