BREAKING UP

Well we all know that New Year's has come and gone and with that comes that test to see if everyone is sticking to their New Year's resolution. Lose weight, stopping smoking/drinking, vacation more, etc... One thing that happens during New Year's is the process of elmination to better one's life. I used to use the New Year to reflect and then form challenges and make vows to improve and build from the previous year. Now that I am older, those challenges and vows I committed to manifested into a way of life and now I have to manage and maintain.

That's not the case for others I've interacted with. Every New Year I have always gotten phones calls because someone got dumped right around the New Year. The person that got dumped always never saw it coming but the more everything is disected and put on the table, the more red flags showed up. So if anyone is in an abusive relationship where your "bf" of "gf" gets some twisted pleasure in making you feel small or less than valued, walk away... Make sure that you do not carry the abusers momentum ansd legacy into the next relationship so that it doesn't have a chance to grow and then when New Year's come around, you are the one who gets dumped for the same reasons you dumped. Do not let these egotistical, self - centered, emotional and moral criminals near your Heart especially if you or your Heart isn't fully developed enough to be ready for battle and fight back.

Understand something, just because you walk away doesn't mean it's over. It means let the drama and the aftermath begin. Let the flowers begin, gifts begin, being sweet begin, the manipulation begin...again. Emotional criminals are repeat offenders and cannot change or grow up into the Man or Woman we hoped for down the road. I'm a whole and complete person so I don't want no goofy ass, incomplete, glass half empty, victim, and twisted/wounded person who's too weak to get over his/her past and his/her self.

Opposites may attract momentarily but compliments are everlasting...

I have written several about this matter but I'll share with you - Opposition